Put aside your emotions for a minute.  If you are in a divorce you need to think for a moment without your emotions.   You need to think about relationships differently.  You need to think in a pattern that allows you to have good successful relationships that work and that are good for you and your children.  

Relationships are either healthy or unhealthy.  Forget about whether the other person is tall, good-looking or young enough.  Either a relationship nourishes you and allows you to be all that you can be or it doesn't.  Either a relationship can be fixed or it can't.  If a relationship is over there will be a time of grief and sorrow.  Take time for that period.  During that time grow as a person so that your next relationship can be much better. 

Instead of worrying about how will you live without your spouse,  instead say to yourself, " Thank God!  They are gone so someone better can now be in my life."  Demand better relationships for yourself and strive to be a better partner. 

As children, we model our parents and the relationships that they have.  When we grow up we have many of the same problems and poor strategies they had.  However, you can break the cycle. You can have much better relationships if you change your own programming and you decide to live differently and better.  You must decide to be a better model for your children than your parents were.  We know of no better source for you at this time than the books by Phillip C McGraw, "Life Strategies," Bill Ferguson, "Divorcing as Friends," and Victoria Satir, "Peoplemaking."

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